Anonymous asked: I LOVE YOUR BLOG AND YOU!! I am pretty sure we live in the same area (Clifton/by UC campus), I am not a stalker LOL but I saw you posted a license plate and said only in clifton, so I am asking this anonymously!! I am wondering if you could give me some input on how to know when I am wasting my time with a guy.. We've been talking since nov. and only hang out 2times a week and it seems like its going nowhere. Any input?!
I am going to hope this is a serious inquiry, and answer it honestly.
Go with how you feel. That sounds cliche, but it’s true. If something doesn’t feel right, then it isn’t right, either on your part or his. Honestly, I tend to hang out/date guys that I could also hang out and respect as a friend/human being, so we find ourselves hanging out more than twice a week, but sometimes that works for people.
If you have to question it though, you’re either too insecure to be in a relationship (which is fine, we all have to work on ourselves at some point) or he just flat out doesn’t like you. If you have to keep justifying what you do or what he does, it just doesn’t seem like a very good idea to me.