Hey guys. What’s up?
Anonymous asked: I LOVE YOUR BLOG AND YOU!! I am pretty sure we live in the same area (Clifton/by UC campus), I am not a stalker LOL but I saw you posted a license plate and said only in clifton, so I am asking this anonymously!! I am wondering if you could give me some input on how to know when I am wasting my time with a guy.. We've been talking since nov. and only hang out 2times a week and it seems like its going nowhere. Any input?!
I am going to hope this is a serious inquiry, and answer it honestly.
Go with how you feel. That sounds cliche, but it’s true. If something doesn’t feel right, then it isn’t right, either on your part or his. Honestly, I tend to hang out/date guys that I could also hang out and respect as a friend/human being, so we find ourselves hanging out more than twice a week, but sometimes that works for people.
If you have to question it though, you’re either too insecure to be in a relationship (which is fine, we all have to work on ourselves at some point) or he just flat out doesn’t like you. If you have to keep justifying what you do or what he does, it just doesn’t seem like a very good idea to me.
The strength to make change is only within yourself. Waiting for the right moment is just another excuse. Take a step in the right direction, and even if you don’t inspire anyone else, inspire yourself. Money can’t buy the times you will look in the mirror and know you’ve done the right thing. Don’t give in, don’t spend your time complaining about what sucks; in fact, be the complete opposite, and set the example. There is no greater revenge than being the change you want to see in others, and knowing that even if you were once that, you will never be that again.
I’m in too deep, and burying myself seems like the better option than trying to climb out.
Anonymous asked: you are so fucking sexy i wanna press my body against your tattoos
I dare you.
ericesun asked: kids like will be alone forever
Kids like us will be alone together.
Anonymous asked: if you had a "the one that got away", who would it be?
I’ve never put any real thought into it. I’ve had my fair share of dating experience and hook up disasters, and luckily most of them have ended up in friendship of some sort, and that’s awesome. I think it’s weird when someone can’t be friends with their ex (unless they’re a complete waste of space psychotic trap for emotion, then I understand). I respect everyone I date or hang out with as humans, thus I view them as more than a “dating object.”
So to answer your question, no one has ever really “gotten away” since, for the most part, they’ve remained in my life somehow. I’m sure I’ve changed a lot through the years, and maybe things could work out differently now if I attempted with some people, but I think in some ways, the reason why we dated then and not now means something. I don’t if this answered your question at all, but man, feelings are weird.
black-eye-blues asked: I'm really glad you're in my life
I feel the same about you. You’re awesome. I love you.
No one ever asks me shit anymore. You don’t even need to ask me things about me. Ask my advice. Or something. Come on.
